Tired of Fighting?
There are so many reasons for conflict in relationships. If you're well-versed in psychology then some of it might make sense, otherwise you're probably lost like I was.
Coaching calls are a great way to get outsider perspective on an issue and allow yourself guidance and advice from a pro. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt.
We will dive into relationship polarity, attachment styles, love languages, coping mechanisms, defensiveness, and more.
Great news for those whose partner isn't ready to join, is that changes in your behavior can help make adjustments in the relationship. Its great when both partners are on board, but sometimes we have to start with just one. I'm here to help, give me a call.
Thinking of giving up?
Think again, especially if you have kids.
Our emotional and mental health is greatly shaped by the relationship between our parents, especially in our first few years of life. If our parents have a healthy relationship, communicate effectively, and create a calm, validating, loving, attentive, and safe home environment, we are much more likely to grow up a securely attached, confident, and stable individual. On the other hand, if our family environment is loud, invalidating, negligent, threatening, and feels unsafe, we will most likely adopt unhealthy and unsustainable coping mechanisms that will create many problems later in our lives. These problems are many of the underlying reasons for divorce, homelessness, crime, teen pregnancy, codependency, eating disorders, and more.
In my efforts to help minimize preventable suffering, I’m choosing to target the root of the problem: unstable home environment. In creating strong and healthy marriages, the family structure is strengthened and becomes a better environment for raising emotionally intelligent children, contributing to not only the well being of the couple but of future generations.
I’m going to share some statistics with you. These shocked and saddened me and really drive home the importance of strong family roots, and investing in the health of your marriage.
- The average marriage only last 8 years.
- 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
- 50% of male suicide happens soon after a divorce.
- The rate of divorce increases with each time to get married.
- Only 25% of marriages survive infidelity.
- 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average.
- In a study of 56 school shootings, only 10 of the shooters (18%) were raised in a stable home with both biological parents. Eighty-two percent grew up in either an unstable family environment or grew up without both biological parents together.
- Daughters of single parents without a Father involved are 53% more likely to marry as teenagers, 711% more likely to have children as teenagers, 164% more likely to have a pre-marital birth and 92% more likely to get divorced themselves.
- 80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes.
- Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school.
- Your chance of divorce is 2x as likely if your own parents divorced.
- Children of divorced parents have 3x the risk of depression, anxiety, and behavioral issues.
- Your chance of divorce triples if your friends are going through divorce.
- On average Women lose 41% of their income after divorce.
- First marriages have a divorce rate of 41, second marriages have a divorce rate of 60% and third marriages top the charts at 73% rate of divorce.
- 72% of couples felt unprepared for the responsibilities and roles of marriage.
Now, although I came from a home with both parents, the conflict and chaos between them caused dysfunction in our home. Minimizing the divorce rate is amazing, but the real goal is peace and harmony in the home. Staying together doesn’t do too much good if there is unrest, chaos, fear, and constant conflict. Only 35% of married couples are actually happy, and my goal is to increase that number. I want to give you the tools you need to grow a happy and healthy family.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between a coach and a therapist or counselor?
Counselors, Therapists, and Psychologists go through rigorous training, testing, and licensing to be able to practice. Although an incredible resource, they do have some limitations. They are only permitted to practice in the state they are licensed in and can often be out of many clients price range.
A coach acts in a similar role as a therapist, but on a more casual basis. Coaches are able to develop more of a personal connection with the person or couple, which eases the "stuffy" feeling that can accompany therapy. Coaches set their own prices and can often be a more affordable option while still providing the information, tools, and support that therapists do. Coaches are able to gather their knowledge from a variety of sources, allowing them to specialize and focus on niche topics.
Why are the services so inexpensive? Does this mean they aren't quality?
The pricing of my courses and coaching is a reflection of my values. Healthy relationships shouldn't be out of anyone's price range.
Can I get a refund if I'm unhappy with my purchase?
Refunds will be issued on a case-by-case basis.
How do I schedule my appointment?
Upon purchasing coaching, you'll receive further instructions on how to book a time for your appointment.
Can I purchase coaching more than once?
Absolutely! If you find yourself in need of coaching more than once, simply purchase the coaching again.